there's dis guy...
i like him...he likes me...
but....
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he lied to me the first time v talked...he admitted the truth to himself after several months....
& he says he wants me + loves me....
but again....
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i have a problem wid trustin him...
& i really like him & want to trust him....
what am I supposed to do????
i like him...he likes me...
but....
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he lied to me the first time v talked...he admitted the truth to himself after several months....
& he says he wants me + loves me....
but again....
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i have a problem wid trustin him...
& i really like him & want to trust him....
what am I supposed to do????
8 thoughts:
hold on! people do mistakes in life, n yeah people do lie at times. But he has clearly accepted it, n have told u the truth [ i guess it came with an apology too ]. So learn to forgive and forget. Else, u cant build a relationship.
One more thing, even if he has not told that lie at the beginning, its practically impossible to trust another human being. Hell ya! We can say we trust. [u can do it now too]. Since its completely impossible to trust another human being, no matter how close they are, giving the full trust is not necessary. Just be patient and listening to him without complaining for a while.
people dnt change,,,when they lie at first than they lie again....once a lier always a a lier,bt it wud hapn tat u wnt knw it the next time. so jst bge careful..u live ur life the way u want to live it...cheers...:d.
people can change...ekamu..if chat kohgen ...dont trust him altogether ingey..trust him ekamu and get to know him better..:D :D
dhen if u like him ...be with him ...
just think of wats right for u....
humans akee aslu v ehen kahala baeh...
u cnt tell wat they r gonna do or how they r gonna be...
and also one thing.... forgiving is gud.... ekamu maa gina ginain dhogu hadhanyaa remember tht it is not a gud sign....
sum ppl chnge and sum ppl dont...
trust kurun is not at all bad...
but dont trust anyone too much...
trust kurevey varu meehun ves ulheyne... ekamu always keep in mind they might be the ones who ruin ur life....
dhen talking abt wat to do...
always do wats right for u..
its ur life.. so live it ur own way...
ehen meehunah visnan hadhaigen gina faharu boa govaanee..
instead live ur own life.......
always remember....... nobody is perfect....
said a lot of stuff.. soo ttyl.. buh bye
the thing trust is sumthing tat we cant do at all..if once sumone lie we will be thing tat he will lie again...so the word trust is being taken away frm him/her self...
as given u a idea i can sat dnt be in a relationship just keep loving and look forward for what he say and go on...latez even u can make a relationship or love...but sooooooooooon before u loose hoim or sumone takes him....
hope u get all the happiness sooooooooon
Give the time... bt i can say that if ur in love with him everything he do will be perfect.. time ll solve everything...
Give him time.....
take sun time to see if u can trust..else forget it..cant workout
it all depends on what he lied about and how big or small a lie that was as well as the impact it made. and one other thing. did he fess up to it and apologise to u on his own? OR did u find it out in some way which led him to fess up and apologise? that too is really important in my view. cos if u found out at first then he'll lie again. plus if he says or claims he loves you then there wont be a need for him to lie to you. more like he cant get himself to lying to the one he's in love. otherwise, its jes a load of bull.
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